I came across this when I was cleaning up some old files. You just never know what you are going to stumble upon when you start to clean! Abbott Garvin is my father's father. He was the youngest of eight children (seven boys). This is his advice for families. He had a hard childhood and a difficult family to love. But he has continued to be a source of faith, love, and inspiration for all of his grandchildren. He and my grandmother are still living in the same house they bought when they were in their 20s! I don't get to see them as much as I would like to. But I hope to get down to see them some time this summer. I love you Granddad!
Abbott Garvin's List for Families
1. Forgive past wrongdoings.
2. Refuse to hold a grudge.
3. Keep communication open.
4. Listen.
5. Remember good times.
6. Remember your own shortcomings.
7. Plan time together.
8. Remember birthdays and holidays.
9. Give advice sparingly.
10. Encourage each other.
11. Forget embarrassing moments.
12. Respect friends and family of siblings.
13. Be honest.
14. Refuse to argue over possessions.
15. Unite to help parents.
16. Say, "I love you."
17. Pray for each other.
